Living Together As Roommates

Your roommates is someone who shares a dorm room or an apartment with you.

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Living Together As Roommates

What if my roommates and I don’t get along ? is it necessary for him/her to be my Buddy ? these and many other questions are always on most Students lips on resumption. However, having a roommate can be a very pleasant and rewarding experience. Here are few tips to make your roommates relationship as enjoyable and supportive as  possible :

Clear Communication from the Get-Go

Start with a brief introduction this goes a long way in knowing yourselves. introduce yourself by telling him/her your name, course of study, hobbies, State of origin etc. As roommates, you will be sharing a small space for a long time, and you will need to respect each other’s needs and preferences. Maybe you like to play music while you study or not, you like or dislike a clean environment, you need some quite time in the morning before you begin the day activities.  don’t work or react base on assumptions, don’t assume that your roommate will just figure anything out without prior knowledge. All these will save you from lots of conflict. However, if there is any conflict/misunderstanding between you and your roommate, please report to the Hall Warden or the Counsellors.

Your Roommate's Stuff is Your Roommate's Stuff

one of the most common problem that arises between roommates is invasion and trespassing. Don’t assume he/she won’t mind if you eat his/her biscuit, he/she probably will. Always ask for permission before borrowing or using anything that belongs to your roommates. 

You might not be Best Friend, and That's Okay

Be pleasant and friendly with your roommate, but also remember to respect their space. Trying to force a best -friend relationship will only cause strain and discomfort for both of you. Be friendly, but make sure you each have your own life and your social circle.

Keep and open mind

Your roommate may have a background very different from yours. He/She may be from different culture and may have a different lifestyle, ideology and perspective than yours. Be open to this new perspective and respect the differences between you. if you do, you will find the diversity this experience brings to your life to be very rewarding.

Do not be part of the problem

Don’t support your roommate when He/She is doing things which contradict God’s rule as well as the School’s rules and regulations. Always learn to speak out and seek help from the Counselling office. Your roommate is now your immediate family. So, learn to live as one big family.

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Welcome and happy stay on TAU Campus !

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